I think brunch dates are the kiss of death as a first or second date because usually brunches are reserved for friends and not romantic scenes. Unless of course it’s food for the morning after, then I am all for it.
I know that going to brunch is a common social occurrence in New York and Toronto, but it’s not a great idea to go out on a date with a gal you want to get to know better. Usually, brunch is reserved for groups of friends and comes after a morning event or just before one, such as a wedding or a sporting event. If a woman wants to have brunch with you then she probably has no intention of taking your relationship beyond the scope of friendship. Suggest a late lunch on a weekend and if it’s nice take her on a picnic or go out that evening. Romance! Romance! Romance! Make it clear to her that you want a real date and not some jerk off, “I just want to be friends” date. If this woman is not interested then pursue another cause.
Warning:
In general many brunches at some restaurants and hotels serve up dishes or specials based on what is leftover from that week. It’s not exactly fresh or good.
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